Berlin: Shadow Tantrika Practitioner Training


May 18-24, 2020

Spitzmuhle, Germany

A Certified Five Day Training by The School of Erotic Mysteries

**(for Professionals & Individuals)**


I would suggest this training to all those people who are in a process of self-discovery and want to face their boundaries in a safe and friendly space. This workshop brought lots of insights, and it is a great seed for making a revolution in your life and in the world around you! <3 

  • Giorgia, Temple Whore Training, Berlin



  • Are you interested in working and connecting with your own and other people’s shadow?
  • Do you want to deepen your skills in taking people on journeys into exploring and reclaiming their shadows?
  • Do you work in the field of sexuality and would you like to broaden your practice?

If you answered yes to any of the above, then this training might be for you. Award-winning professional kinkster Seani Love from London’s ‘School of Erotic Mysteries’ invites you to join him and his team on a journey through depths and delights, magic and wonder, expansion and exploration, pleasure and pain, using the breathtakingly wonderful approach we call ‘Shadow Tantra’.

Shadow Tantra helps us to expand our understanding of our bodies, our subconscious patterns, our sexualities and thus ourselves. With a strong emphasis on boundaries and consent, Shadow Tantra gives us a diverse set of tools that allow us to expand our sexuality, be more confident with our clients (and lovers!), and become more empowered as self-aware erotic beings.

During this training you will learn about:

• The use of ritual and intention to create safe spaces;

• Boundary setting, consent and safety techniques;

• Deepening connection through Tantric techniques and conscious touch;

• Giving and receiving pain and pleasure with intentional BDSM skills;

• Service, sovereignty and surrender;

• Eroticising the authentic dynamics of domination and submission (D/s);

• Giving, receiving and holding power;

• Darker options such as consensual non-consent;

• Engaging with archetypes as paths to self-discovery, empowerment and love.

There will be an emphasis on putting all these things together for the purpose of taking your clients on powerful journeys​ into exploring, understanding and reclaiming their erotic shadows.

The erotic shadow can be a very destructive influence on us if it’s not understood. The goal of this work is to explore, understand and fully integrate the erotic shadows into our psyche thereby making the shadow an ally rather than an enemy.

There are potential initiatory aspects to many of the exercises and rituals we’ll be doing during the training. Coming face to face with your own shadow can be a life-changing experience.

This training is suitable for two groups of people:

i) Those who want to work with Shadow Tantra and Conscious Kink within the sex industry. Tantrikas, escorts, professional kinksters, dakinis, massage therapists, sex coaches.  We will be diving deep into the erotic mysteries, and will focus on creating specialised sessions for each other. 

ii) People who are serious about exploring their erotic shadows in conscious, empowered, intentional spaces as part of their own intimate lives. For pleasure, self-discovery or deep personal evolution and expression. Never underestimate the potency of the adventures you can go on if you bring clarity, intent, frameworks, and conscious agreements into the bedroom (or wherever else you like to play)!

The training is open to people of all genders, relationship styles and sexualities. In the practice exercises, we do not coordinate learning partners based on gender. There is always something to learn.

This training is limited to 24 people only.



Seani has been exploring and teaching erotic ritual techniques to clients, private groups, couples and workshops for over twenty years. An expert in this unique field, Seani received the prestigious industry award ‘Sex Worker of the Year’ in London in November 2015.

His work combines ritual techniques, Conscious Kink, Neo-Tantra, and Jungian Psychology. His work enables him to take his clients on profound journeys into their inner worlds and helping them find power, wisdom, love, and pleasure within themselves.

The names and specialisations of the rest of the team will be announced shortly.


If you want to fully uncover your sexuality in a safe space as part of a fascinating group of beautiful people led by the award-winning sex practitioner Seani Love, then this is the workshop for you.

  • Derra, Temple Whore Sacred Sexuality Practitioner training, Melbourne 2018



Do I need to attend with a partner?

No. You can come on your own and explore techniques with the many other wonderful people in attendance. You are welcome to attend with your partner if that is your desire. Please let the organiser know when booking.

(All boundaries are honored and great communication coached and supported.)

This is all very new to me. Will I be out of my depth? 

If you feel this is very new to you then yes, you will be out of your depth. To be suitable to attend the workshop, we’ll assume you are extremely comfortable in ‘Sex Positive’ spaces and that you have some exposure to one of kink, BDSM or (Neo)Tantra.

(If in doubt please contact Cosima to discuss your concerns.)

What exactly is a ‘practitioner’?

Someone who intends to practice the wonders of Shadow Tantra in an empowered, informed and responsible way. We are aiming this workshop at both professionals, and at those who wish to dive deep into the mysteries of Shadow Tantra and Conscious Kink in their personal/relational lives.

What is this about scholarships?

We have a limited number of scholarship places. Scholarships are by application only. Please send a 3-minute video explaining why one of these scholarship places should be yours. (The video will be treated confidentially and will not be shared outside the team).
Deadline: March 15th.

Will I get a certificate?

This course can be considered professional development work and as such we do give a certificate to people who complete it to a satisfying level. If the teaching team perceives that you have understood consent and boundaries, the structure of a Shadow Tantra ritual and are able to start taking people on journeys using this structure then we’ll award you a certificate. The teachers’ decision is final. If you aren’t awarded a certificate you will be told why.

How sexually explicit is the content?

The exercises vary from energy (no physical touch) to deep intimate, sexual journeys. No particular sex act is ever mandatory! Consent and boundaries are an inherent part of every exercise. We have a high safer sex standard and encourage conversations about this in each exercise. You might see other interacting in a sexual, erotic way and you need to know that is welcome in this space. Erotic exploration is the purpose of the event so please only register if exploring and reclaiming your sexuality are intentions you have. Sexual activity is never obligatory for any participant in any particular exercise.

We try to create a safer container to welcome all emotions and triggers that come up during the week. We encourage all participants to take a break from the program, when it’s needed. 

For any further questions, please get in touch with Cosima




The week will take place at the beautiful venue ‘Spitzmühle Berlin’.

The venue overlooks a beautiful lake. There is a boat, sauna, hot tub, a fire place and a forest to go for runs, walks or a good cry. 

Neue Spitzmühle

Spitzmühlenweg 2

15344 Strausberg

About an hour from Berlin

18th-24th of May 2020

Arrival time 18th: between 2-4pm

Opening Circle 4.30 pm

Dinner 6.30pm

Departure on the 24nd: After lunch



Early Bird Fee (8 tickets): 890€
Standard fee (13 tickets): 990€
Scholarship (3 tickets): 300€ 

Accommodation options: 

Dorm 144€ 

Double Room 240€ per person

Single Room 360€ (There are only 5!)


Fees include accommodation, sauna, three vegetarian meals each day plus copious amounts of tea and snacks. Bedding can be rented for 10€ at the venue. 

Deposit amount: 100€. The deposit guarantees your spot in the workshop and is non-refundable. Must be paid 7 days after your application has been accepted. The remainder must be paid in full before May 1st.
You can work out a payment plan with Cosima, if needed. 



Step 1: All participants are to apply via this form:

Step 2: If your application has been accepted, you will receive the payment information. 








For FAQ see here:


Terms and conditions:

If you cancel within 4 weeks before the start of the workshop, we’ll refund the full amount minus your 100 euros deposit.  If you cancel within 3 weeks notice we’ll refund 50%. If you cancel within 2 weeks notice (or less) we will not be able to refund your payment. Thank you for your love, help and understanding with this. 


It is our loving intention to bring this workshop to you as described above. However, due to life being what it is, sometimes unforeseen circumstances can occur and, well, things just have to flow with that. If we need to cancel the event for any reason you’ll be refunded in full in a timely fashion.

Please get in contact if you wish to discuss scholarship options. 

Print Friendly, PDF & Email