The School of Erotic Mysteries

Getting Conscious with Kink

6-Class Online Course 


* Are you curious about Conscious Kink and BDSM?

* Are you ready to expand your understanding of erotic expression?

* Would you love to deepen trust, connection, communication, and erotic creativity in your intimate relationships?

Then this breathtaking journey into the wonderfully erotic world of Conscious Kink is an amazing starting point!

Whether you are a curious beginner or an experienced player, award-winning sexuality professional Seani Love with his talented super star team, Sanya Alaya, AJ England, Ria Hope & Sonalle LaMariposa, invite you to join them for this beautiful six week journey of exploration.


Conscious Kink helps us expand our understanding of our bodies, our subconscious patterns, our sexualities and thus ourselves. With a strong emphasis on boundaries and consent, Conscious Kink offers us a diverse set of tools that allow us to expand our sexuality, be more confident with our lovers and play partners, and become more empowered as self-aware erotic beings.

During this intensive you will learn about:
  • The use of ritual and intention to create safe spaces
  • Boundary setting, consent and safety techniques
  • Deepening connection through neotantric techniques and conscious touch
  • Giving and receiving pain and pleasure with intentional BDSM skills
  • Service, sovereignty and surrender
  • Eroticising the authentic dynamics of domination and submission (D/s)
  • Giving, receiving and holding power
  • Darker places such as consensual non-consent
  • Exploring how archetypes can be utilised for deepening your erotic journeys

In our personal journeys with conscious kink, we’ve discovered it to be a beautiful set of tools for erotic expansion and communication. We’ve also found great healing, empowerment and the opportunities for deepening self-love. Conscious Kink is not a substitute for actual therapy when therapy is needed; but we have found many powerful and beautiful ways that these tools have helped us make sense of our own traumas, inner conflicts and insecurities. We’ve also found conscious kink to add more joy, understanding and solidarity in our connections with our lovers, partners and playmates.

Meet your Facilitators


Seani Love

Seani Love ( is a professional Kinkster, Shadow Explorer and Shamanic BDSM practitioner who has twenty years of experience in diverse erotic practices. In 2015 he was one of the winners of Sex Worker of the Year at the Sexual Freedom Awards in London.

He is trained in counselling and since 2006 has been working on combining ritual journeys with BDSM as a powerful pathway to healing and self-discovery. As an international workshop facilitator, Seani has supported many people on their journey to places of increased power, personal and sexual expression, wisdom and love. Seani runs the School of Erotic Mysteries in London which (during non-covid times) offers regular workshops, classes and private tuition on all things erotic.

Sonalle LaMariposa

Sonalle is a Psychotherapist, Coach, Tantric Practitioner & Sensual Dominatrix. “My mission is to help modern people grow & transform into the beings they want to be. I offer bespoke sessions for personal fulfilment & transformation including Sensual Domination and Intimacy, Authenticity & Connection in Ritual. I am passionate about encouraging people to reach their full potential & fulfil their deepest needs. My sessions & workshops are an invitation to unite your mind, body, heart & soul, to be in the present moment & discover your truth. I invite you to expand connection with your Self to witness radical change in your connection with others.”

Ria Hope 

Ria Hope is a sexuality educator, intimacy enthusiast and general cheeky monkey.

In 2018, Ria founded The Lahlita Project: a peer-led group designed to provide a space for younger people to talk about sexuality.

Since then she has been paving the way for accessible and down-to-earth information on sexuality and relating. Ria uses her initiative and listens to the needs of her peers to develop sustainable and exciting ways to promote discussion and exploration of healthy, informed sexuality. 

Ria hopes to use her work in this area as a tool for radical social change. She places activism and equality at the forefront of her work, believing that the crux of many issues faced in the modern world stem from a lack of education on sexuality, connection and relationships. 

Before lockdown, Ria was hosting workshops in the Manchester area and at UK-wide festivals. She now works remotely, offering group facilitation, workshops, 1-1 personal development sessions and a good dollop of joy.

AJ England 

Aj is a playful psychosynthesis counsellor, group facilitator and shamanic practitioner with over 20 years of experience.

She is a creative rebel, finding her own way of doing things.

Her work is transformative leaving people feeling free from physical and emotional pain, able to be self expressed and feel comfy in their own skin.

She is passionate about the use of conscious kink as a tool for healing, She first discovered kink in the early 90s then again a few years ago where it seemed possible to incorporate ritual, consciousness and integration, all things that Aj values in her personal and professional life.

Sanya Alaya

Sanya Alaya is a Sexual Empowerment & Somatic Life Coach, certified Sexological Bodyworker, Facilitator, Kinky Tantrika, nomad and dance addict.

She has been learning from various teachers and growing into her purpose of facilitating trauma informed processes, using techniques and tools from Tantra, Tao, Shadow Work, Conscious Kink, Tantra Massage, Chi Nei Tsang, Dearmoring, Creative Consciousness CC® Coaching, Breathwork and Meditation.

Coming from a background of self healing through sacred sexuality and kink, her heart mission is to support men and women to overcome their traumas, fears and shame that hold them back from living a powerful, sensual and loving life. She has worked with hundreds of clients and is all about bringing people back into their bodies – back to pleasure and aliveness! In her 1:1 sessions, online coachings and workshops she empowers her clients to embody their sensuality and wild SELF EXPRESSION, look beyond patterns, love themselves, unravel conditioning and to be fully and unapologetically who they truly are.


Your Investment


This six-episode course (plus bonus material & access to our private community) comes to 195 euros (about 170gbp) for the month of January 2021.

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Please contact Ria at the School of Erotic Mysteries on if you have any questions about the course.

This course welcomes individuals and couples/triads/other constellations of all genders, sexualities and body types. The course offers you exercises that you can try at home with your partner(s).

We look forward to having you on board!


The content covered in this course can be triggering to some people as we deal with issues of consent, boundaries, physical pain and sexuality in general. If you are likely to be triggered by any of these topics please email us to discuss your suitability on this course. We have found great personal healing using the tools of Conscious Kink but it is not designed to be a substitute for therapy when therapy is needed.


**14-day Refund Policy applies if this is not the right course for you**