Katy Cara


Katy is an amazing force of nature – T.

About Katy

I am a yoga, sacred sexuality and self-love practitioner and guide, offering sessions to individuals and couples of all backgrounds, orientations and genders. I’m an adventurer and explorer and love seeking out new and exciting experiences.

In my spare time, when I’m not organising sex positive and people positive festivals and events, you’ll most likely find me working and playing in alternative communities and in nature, inspired by the more beautiful world our hearts know is possible.

Through sharing my gifts and learnings, I want to help people to feel empowered and to live a more joyful and loving life, free of fear and shame. I believe we can each become an explorer of self, reconnecting with our inner child we may have forgotten along the way, and rediscovering our joy and lust for life co-create a more beautiful world together.

Katy you are a beautiful forest nymph with gorgeous energy – I will remember you – D.

Sessions with Katy

These transformational sessions help you to:

  • Re-learn how to relax into your body and your pleasure, and the joy and flow of life
  • Free yourself from shame, fear, guilt, pain or trauma
  • Connect more deeply with your self and others
  • Discover your softness, aliveness, creativity and eros
  • Practice more self-care and self-love
  • Be empowered to live more consciously and authentically

I work intuitively and holistically, using various techniques relevant for the individual for healing and pleasure. I weave together my knowledge and experience of tantra, yoga, shamanism, meditation, breathwork, bodywork, shadow work, ecology, psychology – and life! – to be present and give from my heart.

I began my own journey of transformation when I realised I didn’t want to continue living a life disconnected from my body and my truth. More than a decade on, I’m not tired of exploring, sharing and learning. I am passionate about helping others to free themselves from their limitations – including physical, psychological and sexual issues, blockages and traumas. Something is changing in the world right now – it seems more and more people are coming to appreciate the value of freeing themselves from the constraints that have been holding them back from living a full, creative, joyful, loving and embodied life.

During our first session together, I am giving to you – you are the receiver and there is one-way only touch. This allows you to let go of the “doing mind” and relax into experiencing felt sensations in your body. I hold a safe environment with clear communication, consent and boundaries, which all contribute towards an experience free of shame, judgement or expectation.

Specific sessions may include:

  • Yoni and Vajra healing – also referred to as genital mapping, de-armouring, massage
  • Rosetta healing – also referred to as anal mapping, de-armouring, massage
  • Pelvic expansion massage – reconnecting you with your sexual energy and cauldron of desire
  • Reichian spinal and neck massage – releasing the spine, letting go of the weight of the world and moving into flow
  • Erotic awakening through touch – permission to experience a variety of felt sensations in your physical body, connecting with and moving your sexual energy, expanding your energy body
  • Intimacy coaching and education – how to be a better lover and improve your sex life
  • Creating rituals and alchemy using sex magic – intention setting and letting go, awakening to your aliveness

Our practitioner/client relationship will begin with a consultation followed by a session lasting 2–3 hours in total. Each session thereafter is typically 1.5–3 hours duration, agreed in advance..

If you would like to book a session, please introduce yourself over email (katy[at]schooloferoticmysteries.com) sharing your intention and what you’d like to experience during our time together.

No prior knowledge or experience necessary, please come with an open heart and mind.

Looking forward to meeting you.

Love Katy xx

That was absolutely mesmerising, a truly transformational experience. I’ve never felt so relaxed, you have magic hands! – L.

Presenting at Festivals

Here are a few of my workshop offerings:
  • Boundaries & Consent – speaking your No to truly speak your Yes
  • Elemental Touch Massage – relaxing into your body and your energy through 5 different qualities of touch
  • Genital Honouring – the art of cock and pussy worship
  • Love Me, Love Me – falling in love with your genitals
  • Moon, Womb and Blood Wisdom – connection and creativity with our cycle, our flow, our temple, and the land
  • Naked Yoga – being truly present with our bodies, and bond with our nature
  • Self Love Meditation & Visualisation – making friends and falling in love with every cell of your being
  • Self Pleasure Ritual – amplifying love energy for ourselves, for others and for the planet
  • Sensual Playspace – a space for sensual and gentle sexual experiences
  • Slow & Sensual – erotic awakening through touch; optional massage à trois / 4 handed massage
  • Slow Yoga – moving deeper into our physical body, becoming more attuned to felt sensations and our mind-body relationship
  • TANK: A Sensual Kink Ritual – a space where Tantra & Kink meet

Katy’s ability to make what is ancient and sacred relatable on a day to day basis is second to none. Like the very best teachings; her offerings form a story seen not only with the body but also, and more importantly, with the heart. With humour, humility, curiosity, and with spirit as her ally, she allows those around her to find the magic for themselves. – S.

[Photo credits: Sarah Malone (top), Emma Myrtle (middle and bottom)]
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