The School of Erotic Mysteries

London: Seani Love’s Beginner’s Intro to Conscious Kink

Feb 7 2020, 10:00 am – 6:00 pm


* Are you curious about Conscious Kink and BDSM?
* Are you ready to expand your understanding of erotic expression?
* Would you love to deepen trust, connection, communication, and erotic creativity in your intimate relationships?

Then this breathtaking journey into the wonderfully erotic world of Conscious Kink is your best starting point! Whether you are a curious beginner or an experienced player, award-winning sexuality professional Seani Love with his talented super star team invites you to join them for this beautiful day of exploration.

Conscious Kink is the act of bringing conscious awareness and self-enquiry to BDSM techniques. Conscious Kink helps us expand our understanding of our bodies, our subconscious patterns, our sexualities and thus ourselves. With a strong emphasis on boundaries and consent, Conscious Kink gives us a diverse set of tools that allow us to expand our sexuality, be more confident with our lovers and play partners, and become more empowered as self-aware erotic beings.

Tickets available here!

During this one-day intensive you will learn about:

* The use of ritual and intention to create safe spaces
* Boundary setting, consent and safety techniques
* Deepening connection through and conscious touch
* Giving and receiving pain and pleasure with intentional BDSM skills
* Service, sovereignty and surrender
* Eroticising the authentic dynamics of domination and submission (D/s)
* Giving, receiving and holding power

This one-day workshop will be paced gently and will include:
* A discussion on shadows, fantasies, the origin of the kinksters’ impulse.
* Discussions on why people would want to explore their erotic shadows and do things like inflict pain or have pain inflicted upon them.


“Seani is an amazing facilitator – best I’ve worked with really”

“Gentle intro to power exchange and play”

“A very safe and loving way to explore your erotic edges”

“I loved the relaxed style Seani has which helps people be at ease”

“The attention to consent was impeccable. I didn’t expect consent to be such an erotic way to play and explore”

“Lovely vibe and gentle even when stirring up powerful emotions”

“Very safe space, held with love and humour and light in a very deep way”

Who is this for?

This is an all-genders, queer-friendly workshop, open to individuals and couples of any gender and aimed at those with little or no experience of Kink/BDSM. Those with more experience are welcome to join this day as a warm-up for the intermediate-level event that will follow on Saturday 8th & Sunday 9th February at the same venue. A discounted 3-day ticket is available for those wishing to attend both the beginner and intermediate events (7th – 9th February).

Our intention is to create a safe space for all regardless of gender, orientation or relationship status. No partner is required and everyone will have the opportunity to work with different people in order to enjoy a greater range of experiences. Please note, pairing is not gender-balanced and, whilst we try to ensure a good balance of all genders, we invite you to be open to working with all genders.

If you come as a couple, you may choose to do all or some exercises with your partner.

Where & When?

The workshop will take place at a fantastic studio in Peckham, SE15, on Friday 7th February 2020 from 10am – 6pm.


The cost of the workshop is £120. Early bird price: The first people to book, to help us root this workshop, pay just £90! So if you know you want to join us, book now!

Tickets available here!

A limited number of energy-exchange places are available for those on a low income, who are willing to arrive early, help out through the day and to stay behind to tidy up. Contact Natalie if you would like to apply for this.

For those ready to dive deep!

On Saturday 8th & Sunday 9th February, an intermediate Kinky Couples weekender will follow this event at the same location. If you feel confident that you will be ready for a further 2 days at intermediate level and you have someone you are willing to partner with for the whole weekend, you may buy a discounted 3-day ticket for both the beginner and intermediate events (7th – 9th February). Please note, if you are unsure if you will feel ready for the intermediate weekender, please wait to see if tickets are still available on the day, as refunds will not be possible less than 7 days before the event.


Seani Love ( is a professional Kinkster, Shadow Explorer and Shamanic BDSM practitioner who has twenty years of experience in diverse erotic practices. In 2015 he won the award of Sex Worker of the Year at the Sexual Freedom Awards in London. He is trained in counselling and since 2006 has been working on combining ritual journeys with BDSM as a powerful pathway to healing and self-discovery. As an international workshop facilitator, Seani has supported many people on their journey to places of increased power, personal and sexual expression, wisdom and love. Seani runs the School of Erotic Mysteries in London which offers regular workshops, classes and private tuition on all things erotic.

Seani Love will be assisted by the wonderful Emerald May at this workshop:
Emerald May is a current student with the School of Erotic Mysteries, soon to graduate as a sacred sexuality practitioner. She is also training as a Sexological Bodyworker with Sea School of Embodiment. She has been on her personal sexual healing journey for the past 7 years and is buzzing to begin serving the sex positive community and the world at large with her wide array of skills in the field of sacred sexuality. With a background in Psychology, Emerald has training in tantric breathwork, The Wheel of Consent, Shamanic breathwork, intimate massage and bondage/Rope play. She is passionate about supporting people to own and respect their own and others’ boundaries, enabling true surrender and empowerment. Emerald balances her nurturing mother Goddess archetypes with her ravenous and wild Beast. She works with these archetypes to support people to discover their own power and to heal, to accept themselves and to live in a fully embodied way.


Book your ticket now and grab the early bird price for first 10 bookings! For any questions, please get in touch with Natalie. We look forward to seeing you there : )


You are welcome to sell your ticket to someone else if you can no longer make it – please let us know so we can update the name on the door list. If you wish to apply for a refund, click here to see our refund policy.


Peckham, London, SE15 2JR