The School of Erotic Mysteries

October 19-20th, 2019


During this intermediate-level extended weekend workshop, you will be guided through many of the ways Conscious Kink, Fetish and BDSM can be approached in a ritualistic way in a system we call ‘Shadow Tantra’.

During this extended weekend workshop, you will be guided through many of the ways Conscious Kink, Fetish and BDSM can be approached in a ritualistic way in a system we call ‘Shadow Tantra’.


We will:

* Explore how energy can be moved and shifted using BDSM technique
* Delve into how accessing archetypes through ritual can be empowering
* How ritual and erotic connection go beautifully hand-in-hand
* Look at the potential healing benefits that come about through conscious exploration of kink and sexuality

If you’ve been to Seani Love’s workshops before you’ll be familiar with some of the basic structures he uses (Energy Bubbles, Consent and Boundaries, Communication Tools). For those new to his work, you’re in for a treat as these basic structures can be profoundly life-changing and life-affirming.

We’ll be looking at archetypes, and understanding how we can embody different archetypes in erotic ritual process leading us to greater understanding of ourselves and our relationship to others. This bodes well for super-charging our sex-lives as much as it empowers us to know ourselves much better.

This type of work has many aims including:

* Better erotic communication techniques
* Know and express your boundaries more proficiently
* Hold space for others as you take them on deeper journeys
* Learning the craft of accessing archetypes in erotic ritual settings
* Find ways to have a more beautiful and fulfilling sex life
* Get to know yourself better


This is Level 3 of 5: You’ll need to already have experience with kink, knowledge of consent, boundaries and energy work to join this workshop. We will give a refresher of these subjects but this workshop is aimed at people who have already experienced some kink, are already proficient at knowing and expressing their own boundaries and who have an understanding of energy work. If uncertain, please speak to the organiser (Natalie) about your experience level.

This is an all-genders, queer-friendly workshop, open to individuals and couples of any gender. Our intention is to create a safe space for all regardless of gender, orientation or relationship status. No partner is required and everyone will have the opportunity to work with different people in order to enjoy a greater range of experiences. If you come as a couple, you may choose to do all or some exercises with your partner.



The workshop will take place at a fantastic studio in Peckham, SE15, on Saturday 19th & Sunday 20th October 2019.

* Please arrive 9:15am – 9:40am, so you can settle in. Please do not arrive late as it disrupts the group.
* Saturday 19th Oct: 10am – 10pm (includes breaks and group ritual)
* Sunday 20th Oct: 10am – 6pm

Drinks and snacks provided, please bring your own lunch/dinner. There are are many restaurants nearby.



On Friday 18th October, we will run a Beginner’s Intro To Conscious Kink ( at the same venue, that more experienced kinksters are also welcome to attend as a warm-up for The Ritual of Shadow Tantra weekend. If you fancy a day to ease you in so you can dive deeper during the intermediate event, we are offering a discounted 3-day ticket for all 3 days (18th – 20th October).


The cost of this workshop is £230. Early bird price: The first 10 people to book, to help us root this workshop, pay just £180! So if you know you want to join us, book now! A discounted 3-day ticket is available if you wish to join the optional extra day on Friday 18th October.

A limited number of work-exchange places are available for those on a low income. These are discounted tickets in exchange for you arriving early and leaving late on both days to help us with set up/clean up. Contact Natalie if you would like to apply for this.


Seani Love is a professional Kinkster, Shadow Explorer and Shamanic BDSM practitioner who has twenty years of experience in diverse erotic practices. In 2015 he won the award of Sex Worker of the Year at the Sexual Freedom Awards in London. He is trained in counselling and since 2006 has been working on combining ritual journeys with BDSM as a powerful pathway to healing and self-discovery. As an international workshop facilitator, Seani has supported many people on their journey to places of increased power, personal and sexual expression, wisdom and love. Seani runs the School of Erotic Mysteries in London which offers regular workshops, classes and private tuition on all things erotic. Seani will be assisted by a wonderful team of assistants.

Sanya Alaya is a Sexual Empowerment Coach, Tantric Bodyworker and Tantra Yoga teacher who started to explore the world of conscious kink and bdsm twelve years ago. Diving deep into her own desires, needs and boundaries as the start of a yearlong journey. For the last 7 years she’s been intensely on her own healing path and found her heart mission to support men and women to overcome their traumas, fears and shame that hold them back from living a powerful, sensual and loving life. With her compassionate and no-bullshit attitude and gifted ability to hold space, she empowers her clients to love themselves and their bodies, unravel conditioning and not hold back with expressing who they truly are.