The School of Erotic Mysteries

About Us


The School of Erotic Mysteries is dedicated to the finest, clearest, cleanest sexuality education possible. We teach all levels of sex education from those just getting started through to professional development and advancement.

We feel sexuality is a part of spirituality and we attempt to merge the spiritual with the erotic in all of our teachings and workshops.

Our team is primarily based in London and during the pandemic most of our work is online.

We are inclusive of all genders, races and abilities. We are pro sex workers’ rights and believe sex positivity and conscious kink are necessary for building a better world.

Please take a look at our courses, consider training in person  and get in touch if you’d like to deepen your understanding of the Erotic Mysteries.

Sanya Alaya

Sanya Alaya is a Sexual Empowerment & Somatic Life Coach, Tantric Bodyworker, certified Sexological Bodyworker, Pleasure Activist, gypsy and dance addict. For the last three and a half years she has been travelling the world, learning from various teachers and growing into her purpose. She is trauma informed and uses techniques and tools from Tantra, Tao, Shadow Work, Conscious Kink, Tantra Massage, Chi Nei Tsang, Dearmouring, Creative Consciousness CC® Coaching, Yoga, Breathwork and Meditation. Coming from a background of self healing through sacred sexuality and kink, my heart mission is to support men and women to overcome their traumas, fears and shame that hold them back from living a powerful and loving life. I have worked with hundreds of clients and am all about bringing people back into their bodies – back to pleasure! In my 1:1 sessions, online coachings and workshops all over the world I empower my clients to love themselves, unravel conditioning, embody their sensuality and wild self expression for a successful life!

Sara Ablinger

Sara Ablinger is a Vienna based bodyworker and workshop facilitator specialised in bodypositivity, radical self-care & self-love,consent culture, intimacy and conscious sexuality. Bringing Big Body Love also to Germany and the UK, she creates spaces of empowerment, authenticity, connection, pleasure and healing, focussing on the empowerment and participation of marginalised bodies such as queer, fat, disabled bodies.

Seani Love

Seani Love brings many fields together in his work with conscious sexuality. He has training in diverse ritual and magical traditions dating over the past 25 years. He has studied counselling, ritual theatre and Urban Tantra. Seani runs a successful practice as a kink coach for singles and couples and is a professional dominant with clients around the world. Seani is most fascinated in how conscious exploration of sexuality leads to self-knowledge, healing, intimacy and deep pleasure. In 2015 he won the coveted award 'Sex Worker of the Year' in London for his outstanding contribution to the field of sexuality

Sonalle LaMariposa

Sonalle is a Psychotherapist, Coach, Tantric Practitioner & Sensual Dominatrix. My mission is to help modern people grow & transform into the beings they want to be. I offer bespoke sessions for personal fulfilment & transformation including Sensual Domination and Intimacy, Authenticity & Connection in Ritual. I am passionate about encouraging people to reach their full potential & fulfil their deepest needs. My sessions & workshops are an invitation to unite your mind, body, heart & soul, to be in the present moment & discover your truth. I invite you to expand connection with your Self to witness radical change in your connection with others.

Aj England

Aj is a playful psychosynthesis counsellor, group facilitator and shamanic practitioner with over 20 years of experience. She is a creative rebel, finding her own way of doing things. Her work is transformative leaving people feeling free from physical and emotional pain, able to be self expressed and feel comfy in their own skin. She is passionate about the use of conscious kink as a tool for healing. She first discovered kink in the early 90s then again a few years ago where it seemed possible to incorporate ritual, consciousness and integration, all things that Aj values in her personal and professional life.

Giorgia Pecora

Giorgia is an Evolutionary astrologer, Astro-Shamanic practitioner and sex positive esoteric activist. She has been trained in Core Shamanism, inner alchemy practices, and Astro-Shamanism. As well as astrological practice, she is an experienced teacher and space holder, having worked in a variety of educational settings since 2005. She is currently exploring the world of Sacred Sexuality with Seani Love. Giorgia is based in Berlin and speaks English and Italian.

Emerald May

Emerald offers a gauntlet of experiences ranging from extreme pleasure to deep healing. Using techniques from a plethora of sex-positive modalities including Neo-Tantra, Conscious Kink, Sacred Sexuality, the Wheel of Consent and Sexological Bodywork. Alongside her background in Psychology, mindfulness and clear communication skills, she offers professional, embodied and intuitive sessions to people of all genders. Her soul mission is to support people to notice, value and voice their desires and boundaries and to empower people to express and embody them clearly and cleanly. Emerald is located in the UK.

Ria Hope

Ria Hope is a sexuality educator, intimacy enthusiast and general cheeky monkey. In 2018, Ria founded The Lahlita Project: a peer-led, group aimed at providing an accessible space for younger people to talk about sexuality within her community. Since then she has been paving the way for accessible and down-to-earth information on sexuality and relating. Ria uses her initiative and listens to the needs of her peers to develop sustainable and exciting ways to promote discussion and exploration of healthy, informed sexuality. Ria hopes to use her work in this area as a tool for radical social change. She places activism and equality at the forefront of her work, believing that the crux of many issues faced in the modern world stem from a lack of education on sexuality, connection and relationships. Pre-lockdown, Ria was hosting workshops in the Manchester area and at UK-wide festivals. She now works remotely, offering group facilitation, workshops, 1-1 personal development sessions and a good dollop of joy.


Cosima is an experienced, amazing event & workshop organiser. She loves creating and holding spaces where people can go on deep journeys, play and have fun. Since 2016, she has been spreading the word of radical self-love, gratitude and sex-positivity on her blog Cusilife to rebel against the ideals of beauty, body image, love and life choices. Cosima is trained in Tantra, Consent & Conscious Kink. She is based in Berlin, where she is involved in the sex-positive scene and creates workshops, parties and other events. She is polyamorous and pansexual.


Ema aka Emmanuelle Duchesne is a certified Orgasmic Meditation coach trained by One Taste in 2013. She’s the author of 50 exercises de Slow Love et Sex Meditation, published by Eyrolles. Ema is the founder of the Slow Sex Love Life movement and has trained a few Slow Sex Love Life coaches. Ema is based in the South of France.

Ariane Lalakea

Ariane Lalakea is a Conscious Kink practitioner, Coach, Yogini, Tantrika, facilitator and entrepreneur. She strives to find ways to increase our well-being through a deeper connection to body, mind and soul. Through her background in Eastern traditions of well being and a Master study in positive psychology and coaching together with her 5 years experience she provides a wide and unique variety of tools. She is co-founder of BliXX, a conscious kink laboratory and founder of BEoneers, a holistic health approach for modern minds. Ariane is based in Austria and speaks both English and German.

Keli Mara

Keli Mara is an intimacy coach and educator.

Keli creates intimate coaching containers to facilitate her clients forging new blueprints for true connection. She acts as a powerful mirror, reflecting the parts that most need love and attention and she brings presence, holding and witnessing so that powerful transformations can take place.

When working with intimacy, our core wounding or trauma can arise on the path to wholeness. Keli is trauma-informed to support her clients in this sacred work towards integration and empowerment.